Sometimes people come into our life and we know right away that they were meant to be there, they serve some sort of purpose, to teach us a lesson or help figure out who we are or who we want to become.
We never know who those people may be; our roommate, neighbor, long lost friend, lover or even a complete stranger who, when we lock eyes with them we know that very moment that they will affect our life in some profound way. And sometimes things happen to us and at the time they may seem horrible, painful and unfair, but in reflection we realized that without overcoming those obstacles we would have never realized our potential, strength, will power or heart.
Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by mean of good or bad luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of our soul. Without these small test, if they be events, illnesses or relationship, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere. Safe and comfortable but dull and utterly pointless.
The people we meet who effect our life and the successes and downfalls our experience, they are the ones who create who we are today. Even the bad experiences can be learned from the. Those lessons are the hardest and probably the most important ones.
People come into our life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When we know which one it is, we will know what to do for that person.
When someone is in our life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need we have expressed. They have come to assist us through a difficulty, to provide us with guidance and support, to aid us physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on our part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force us to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer we sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into our life for a SEASON,because our turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring us an experience of peace or make us laugh. They may teach us something we have never done. They usually give us an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.!
LIFETIME relationships teach us lifetime lessons,things we must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Our job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what we have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of our life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were for a reason, a season or a lifetime. :)
We never know who those people may be; our roommate, neighbor, long lost friend, lover or even a complete stranger who, when we lock eyes with them we know that very moment that they will affect our life in some profound way. And sometimes things happen to us and at the time they may seem horrible, painful and unfair, but in reflection we realized that without overcoming those obstacles we would have never realized our potential, strength, will power or heart.
Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by mean of good or bad luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of our soul. Without these small test, if they be events, illnesses or relationship, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere. Safe and comfortable but dull and utterly pointless.
The people we meet who effect our life and the successes and downfalls our experience, they are the ones who create who we are today. Even the bad experiences can be learned from the. Those lessons are the hardest and probably the most important ones.
People come into our life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When we know which one it is, we will know what to do for that person.
When someone is in our life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need we have expressed. They have come to assist us through a difficulty, to provide us with guidance and support, to aid us physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on our part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force us to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer we sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into our life for a SEASON,because our turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring us an experience of peace or make us laugh. They may teach us something we have never done. They usually give us an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.!
LIFETIME relationships teach us lifetime lessons,things we must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Our job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what we have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of our life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were for a reason, a season or a lifetime. :)
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